I have finally stopped breastfeeding on Sat. It’s been exactly 14 months, and about 20 days.
Our family had a bit of a rough weekend. I was planning to wean Sophie by Christmas or at least end of the year. My plan was to do it slow and smooth. Sophie is already down to 2 breastfeeding times - when she wakes up and before she sleeps. When I’m away, whoever babysits can give her a bottle of formula milk at night and she sleeps. Over the past month I’ve introduced her to a cup of formula milk at breakfast which she loves.
The final stage was to drop either the morning or night feed first and subsequently the other. I couldn’t decide which one to go first coz both meant a lot to her. The morning feed is our bonding time and the night feed calms her down. So that was my stuck point. I couldn’t quite get past that stage.
Anyways… to cut the long story short. I went to the doctor on Sat because my migraines have been affecting my daily life for the past month. It comes and goes, almost everyday. The doctor’s exactly words were you’ll have to wean her if you want anything other than a panadol. I was really quite sad. I didn’t expect to have to wean Sophie like that - a choice between her or I. But the panadol wasn’t working for me anymore.
Anyway, with James’ encouragement, I decided to wean Sophie off completely. That night, she cried "milk milk". I figured also that since she can start saying that, i better wean her off else we’ll be out and she’ll be tugging at my shirt and saying "milk milk". argh…
The morning after was the worst. She cried for a while before she was willing to take the cup of milk. Since then, it’s been quite good. She happily took the cup of milk this morning.
I’m kinda glad it happened this way coz I’m so bad at letting things go and I normally just hang on. It’s me who needed weaning, I think. So I’m glad to say, I’ve got my migraines under control and Sophie is fully weaned.